I've found a place to suit all of your needs, granted, it's probably better suited for the Dallas part of this group. It's off of Lancaster right by downtown, that way neither the N. Ft. Worth or S. Ft. Worth guys have to go all the way across town. Let me know what y'all think.
http://www.bestfriendsfw.com/
It has good reviews...
http://fortworth.gaycities.com/bars/...t-friends-club